The Missing Pillar of Fertility Success: Why Your Protocol Isn’t Working (Yet) Part Two with Tania Khazaal

“Consciousness means I’m so aware of my gaps that I can’t ignore them anymore.”

Topics Discussed

• The 4 pillars of conscious living for fertility
• How unresolved childhood trauma affects your fertility
• Relationship dynamics and their impact on healing
• The hidden costs of ignoring emotional wellness
• Energy hygiene as daily self-maintenance
• The 5 stages of transformation
• The myth of instant results & the addiction to new protocols
• What true surrender looks like on a cellular level
• Intuition, inner wisdom & releasing expectations

“You cannot be successful in your purpose if your intimate life is falling apart.”

Hello Beautiful Souls, Monica here...

What if the fertility “protocol” you’re chasing isn’t the one you actually need? In today’s second half of Tania’s fire-filled conversation, we’re diving deep into the gaps. The ones you're avoiding. The messy, human, “I thought I already healed that” corners of life that keep bleeding into your fertility journey, your marriage, your mental health, your everything.

We talk about what it means to be conscious, not just within yourself, but in how you show up in your relationships, your communication, your health, and your purpose. Spoiler alert: Most people are nailing 1–2 of these pillars and flat-lining the rest. That imbalance? It leaks. It drags down your progress. It feeds burnout.

This episode breaks down the five emotional and energetic stages you move through on the path to motherhood, entrepreneurship, healing, hell, even marriage. We discuss why most women sabotage their progress by jumping to the next shiny thing and how real transformation happens when you stay put and let it suck for a while. It’s the space where your nervous system gets regulated, your inner voice gets louder, and your cells finally get the memo: We’re safe now.

One of Tania’s friends got pregnant the one month she stopped trying—because she wanted to enjoy a Vegas bachelorette party. Her body finally exhaled, and boom. That’s not magic—it’s biology meeting surrender.

Ready to stop quitting on yourself when things get hard? Press play.

“Anything that works quickly shouldn’t be the only solution—you just need more patience, not another protocol.”

Timestamps

01:25 The 4 pillars of a conscious life and how your childhood story bleeds into your fertility story.

04:38 How fixing your marriage and relationship dynamics can transform your fertility.

07:40 The importance of energy hygiene: the non-negotiable self-care you’re skipping.

11:18 The 5 stages you must move through for transformation and why most people quit at stage 3.

14:42 Why patience and surrendering to the waiting room matter more than protocol.

17:34 The four fertility pillars & how to check your own gaps without overwhelming yourself.

19:08 The power of meditation and how to access your intuition when the world won’t shut up.

“You start with one micro step, then the next one appears—and suddenly you're 100 steps in.”

Full Transcript on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/part-two-tania-khazaal 

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Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.